Anxiety, in excess, comes from frequent stress reactions. It is the
subjective sense of feeling underequipped to handle the challenges of
life. The normal daily demands become too risky. It easily results in
avoidance, procrastination, panic, phobias, and depression.
Anger comes with the perception of being undervalued. Its destructive
potential comes when a person is not skilled in expressing needs and
interests. So, the effort is to help a person become a more effective
influencer through proper skill building and not resort to aggression.
Couple Conflict is essential to the growth of a relationship. However,
people often avoid or mishandle strong emotions. They do not know
how to address their differences in needs and interests as the
relationship matures. The key is found in the practice of proper
techniques.
Addiction manifests itself in many forms including alcohol, drugs, food,
sex, and others. The addiction becomes a “solution” or “one stop
shopping” to alter an uncomfortable mood. The first step is to practice
abstinence. The second step becomes crucial for preventing relapse:
accepting personal responsibility and advocating one’s own healthy
interests.
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© 2012 Charles H. Hogan, Psy.D.